The Softening

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Why We Can't Just Let Ourselves Be Loved Already
The terrifying, but necessary practice of receiving
Oct 7 • 
Amy Dong

September 2025

The Relational Library
For those who crave love & everything around it
Sep 22 • 
Amy Dong

August 2025

Is Dating Just Math?
A therapist's take on The Materialists
Aug 12 • 
Amy Dong

July 2025

Why Romance is the Most Necessary Inconvenience
Excavating romance from the ordinary because we all can't go to Italy for the summer
Jul 15 • 
Amy Dong

May 2025

Our healing isn't a burst
Social anxiety, moss, and the inconvenience of slow growth
May 2 • 
Amy Dong

March 2025

Dangerous little thing
Can we be envious and still be good?
Mar 26 • 
Amy Dong

January 2025

Dopamine diaries
cheap thrills, the scarcity loop, and Benedictine monks
Jan 29 • 
Amy Dong

October 2024

Cracked open
The blessing of losing control
Oct 16, 2024 • 
Amy Dong

August 2024

Finding the rhythm
The slow, hard work of returning to the body
Aug 7, 2024 • 
Amy Dong

June 2024

The art of becoming a person
Will someone just tell me how to be?
Jun 25, 2024 • 
Amy Dong

May 2024

The Workshop
Releasing the myth of 'once and for all'
May 23, 2024 • 
Amy Dong

February 2024

The abundance affair
Our reeling minds, the practice of enough, and the art of redrawing the finish line
Feb 28, 2024 • 
Amy Dong
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