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Why We Can't Just Let Ourselves Be Loved Already
The terrifying, but necessary practice of receiving
Oct 7
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Amy Dong
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September 2025
The Relational Library
For those who crave love & everything around it
Sep 22
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Amy Dong
20
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August 2025
Is Dating Just Math?
A therapist's take on The Materialists
Aug 12
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Amy Dong
16
12
4
July 2025
Why Romance is the Most Necessary Inconvenience
Excavating romance from the ordinary because we all can't go to Italy for the summer
Jul 15
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Amy Dong
27
5
13
May 2025
Our healing isn't a burst
Social anxiety, moss, and the inconvenience of slow growth
May 2
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Amy Dong
18
14
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March 2025
Dangerous little thing
Can we be envious and still be good?
Mar 26
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Amy Dong
25
3
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January 2025
Dopamine diaries
cheap thrills, the scarcity loop, and Benedictine monks
Jan 29
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Amy Dong
30
3
October 2024
Cracked open
The blessing of losing control
Oct 16, 2024
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Amy Dong
15
5
4
August 2024
Finding the rhythm
The slow, hard work of returning to the body
Aug 7, 2024
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Amy Dong
27
7
4
June 2024
The art of becoming a person
Will someone just tell me how to be?
Jun 25, 2024
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Amy Dong
12
3
4
May 2024
The Workshop
Releasing the myth of 'once and for all'
May 23, 2024
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Amy Dong
10
3
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February 2024
The abundance affair
Our reeling minds, the practice of enough, and the art of redrawing the finish line
Feb 28, 2024
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Amy Dong
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8
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